Getting married to the right person

Posted by Felix Okoli on Monday March 24, 2014 at 16:37:9:

Marriage is a life long thing, it is a sacred institution where once you enter, you aren’t expected to go back, unless you opting for a divorce, which isn’t recommended.

One of the reasons why there is a high rate of divorce in marriages today is because people do not take there time in choosing their life partners before settling down for marriage. This article will provide tips that will serve as a guide on how to choose the right Person to get married to, it is better to observe these tips while you are still dating the Person.

- Decide on the qualities you want in your Partner. This is should be the first step to take. Sum up what qualities you want in your future Partner, try not to be too choosy. It will help set a standard for you, and stop you from seeing any Dick, Tom, or Stella that comes into your life as a potential life Partner.

- Look for a partner that has a similar background as you: The more similar the background of your partner is to yours, the more likely you are going to have a stable marriage. People who tend to argue a lot or fight is normally because the partners lived different lives while growing up. What may be normal to one partner may be a taboo to the other partner. This is why people prefer to relate with people who have things in common with them.

- When you are still dating, try to know the person on a Personal level, and don’t allow distractions like beauty, sex and money becloud your sense of reasoning.

- Get to know your Partner’s weak points and strong point, take a decision with yourself to know if you can endure His or Her weak points before walking down the aisle.

- Can you see a future with the Person? Do both of you share the same goals and aspirations to better each other’s life, if can’t see a long future with your partner, its better not to take it to a deeper level of getting married.