How to ask a Nigerian girl out on Facebook

Posted by Chidinma on Monday July 6, 2015 at 15:5:14:

There have been many instances where people that met themselves on Social networks especially on Facebook, started a serious relationship that led to marriage. Social networks serves as a medium to network and meet new people daily. Let’s take this scenario as an instance, as a Nigerian guy Facebook suggested a new female friend for you, and along the line, you discover that you both of you share similar interest and you started having feelings for her, the question is how do you ask the girl out without scaring her away; how to ask a Nigerian girl out on Facebook involves;

• Send a friend request: The first step to connecting with someone through facebook is to ask to be their friend. If the person accepts, then you are already online friends. You may first use the send friend request button and afterwards also drop a message or hint why you want to be her friend. It would be easier for her to accept you if she already knows you in real life than if you were a total stranger. Also, ensure that you have a good facebook picture as your main picture. Your Face should be clearly visible on Facebook if you want to make more friends.

• Get To Know Her: You can’t meet a female friend on Facebook today and ask her out the next day, it will make you look unserious and the girl may think that you have some ulterior motive towards her, especially if she doesn’t know you in person. Spend some time with her online through chatting in order to get to know her and let her know you too. Try to avoid lies in whatever info you give her about yourself because it may backfire later.

• Let her know Of Your Intention: If you develop interest in the girl as you guys get to know each other, you have to let her know your intention soon enough, meanwhile, you have to ask her to ensure that she is not into any serious relationship with another person before you make your intention known to her.

• Fix A Date to Meet Her: If both of you are staying in the same State or Town, it makes things easier, but if both of you are residing in different States, you have to be the one to travel down to meet her. Fix a place in a public place like a Fast food or restaurant.